Glad you took a chance on yourself and it’s paying its emotional dividends. Anytime I hear someone leave their jobs, I congratulate them for putting themselves first. We are worth every risk we take.
The early ecstasy of unemployment!! Yes yes yes, it’s so real! Last March I got fired (from a gross tech start up, and I probably got fired in part bc I was always the last to arrive and the first to leave bc it was a gross tech start up), and there was something so cool about those first few weeks. Frankly I look back on being fired so fondly. By the time the misalignment between my and the company’s values became so pronounced that they cut me, it was so freeing, and such a relief to know that was a place I fundamentally did not belong.
And to do it of your own volition speaks even more to your strength of agency! I love to see it!!
I'm so grateful that you resonate with this feeling! I'm so sorry that you experienced that chaos in the workspace but I can see that it was necessary for you to witness how far you were from what felt enlivening and what felt loving. We deserve so much more and internally we knew, that's the most important thing. I love the way you articulated it so much. Appreciate you and these thoughts on belonging that you've left us with!
This entire piece is stunning. Opting out of the rat race looks great on you! Also, I feel so seen - I similarly quit what others called “a great job” to follow my passion and allow my nervous system to breathe a sigh of relief. Thank you for this. I just ordered The Opposite of An Exodus and can’t wait for it to arrive 😊. Also, you’re radiant, in the golden hour.
You are so sweet, I appreciate you sharing your take on stepping away from what society deems 'good' for your own good. We deserve way more than the flimsiness of empty expectations. Nothing beats that nervous system reset anyway. I also really appreciate you purchasing 'The Opposite of an Exodus'!
And thank you so much, we really were made for the sun
Nov 10, 2023·edited Nov 10, 2023Liked by Amara Amaryah
This was such a beautiful read and exactly what I needed to read today. Thank you for sharing your art with us ❤️ "I celebrate the way I gently unknotted whatever sat stubbornly in my stomach, the guilt, the sense that writing was a side hustle rather than all I woke up and wanted to do." Hit so close to home 🫶🏾
i feel so grateful to have come across this post and comments section today, amara. im currently on day two of calling in “sick”myself. im burnt out on the rat race, yearning so deeply for something different. your words bring me hope that something different is not just possible, but near🌀
Kenzi I'm so thankful for this comment. It is perfectly timed!!! And I am praying that you arrive at the place you're supposed to with ease. It is near!! What an affirmation, I appreciate this and you always.
I love this. Especially "my long love affair with having the sense and bravery". What taking a truly courageous leap can do for one's soul! Thank you for sharing!
Mmmmm, thank you so much for sharing this. It is absolutely our time (endlessly). I'm so composed (air sign) but fr I sometimes wonder how it would've gone if I wasn't a think first, act after person loool. Truthfully, I feel like I needed to leave that space to truly acknowledge my power, the way it exists always in me and my worthiness in general. It was, as you can tell, a toxic space in a very British way and so any form of acting out felt misplaced for me. But it could never run today, there is not a soul on Earth who can disrespect me in the name of power dynamics. With maturity and self-knowing, it's a blessing to know how to navigate and remove ourselves from that with urgency. I honestly lovee this topic, the turning point (and innate self-protection) for Black women is honestly my favourite thing to witness. So glad you're on your journey now
I am sending love as you find your footing through this!!
Such a beautiful read 🩷 Your decision is incredibly courageous. Wishing you the very best, and I'm excited to continue reading you. Such a delightful discovery!
I'm coming to this piece way late, but just wanted to say: what a wonderful read. Having f*ck off money is one thing, but having the courage to actually f*ck off is another. Good for you for having the courage to bet on yourself! I was unemployed for about a year between 2021-2022 (though it was a lot less brave because it was not 100% my choice), and I miss having that time to myself to just write.
Wow I can imagine a whole year being so full and leaving enough space to write and lay around thinking and rest(!!!). I agree, the f*cking off part is fuelled by a type of courage I never needed to use before but I'm so glad for it. That period was a different kind of special. I really cherish what that time alone inspired in me. Thanks for reading!
Thank you so much for sharing this with me. It makes me want to treasure these moments, in between time, when I can write, even more. I remember being too tired to write in the morning (like I promised myself), or attack and edit in the evening (like I promised myself).
Mmmm I know that feeling! I'm glad you're making space to enjoy and treasure that period and dedicate it to your writing. I really think it changed the game for me and I'm glad that it resonates with you and other writers. Thank you for reading and being here, Mika.
I just found this piece and it's stunning. It stirs up curiosity within myself and what I'm capable of. Thank you for sharing <33 I love hearing when people take a leap of faith for themselves.
I’m sorry you were treated like that, but proud of you for taking a chance even with the unknowns. I recently was let go from my job, but I was unhappy anymore and was actually relieved when it happened. I woke up so much happier the next day knowing I could now work on myself and my future instead of dreading each day!
Glad you took a chance on yourself and it’s paying its emotional dividends. Anytime I hear someone leave their jobs, I congratulate them for putting themselves first. We are worth every risk we take.
Yes, exactly this. Knowing our worth is everything. Thanks for this reminder!
👏🏾 THIS! Well said!
The early ecstasy of unemployment!! Yes yes yes, it’s so real! Last March I got fired (from a gross tech start up, and I probably got fired in part bc I was always the last to arrive and the first to leave bc it was a gross tech start up), and there was something so cool about those first few weeks. Frankly I look back on being fired so fondly. By the time the misalignment between my and the company’s values became so pronounced that they cut me, it was so freeing, and such a relief to know that was a place I fundamentally did not belong.
And to do it of your own volition speaks even more to your strength of agency! I love to see it!!
I'm so grateful that you resonate with this feeling! I'm so sorry that you experienced that chaos in the workspace but I can see that it was necessary for you to witness how far you were from what felt enlivening and what felt loving. We deserve so much more and internally we knew, that's the most important thing. I love the way you articulated it so much. Appreciate you and these thoughts on belonging that you've left us with!
This entire piece is stunning. Opting out of the rat race looks great on you! Also, I feel so seen - I similarly quit what others called “a great job” to follow my passion and allow my nervous system to breathe a sigh of relief. Thank you for this. I just ordered The Opposite of An Exodus and can’t wait for it to arrive 😊. Also, you’re radiant, in the golden hour.
You are so sweet, I appreciate you sharing your take on stepping away from what society deems 'good' for your own good. We deserve way more than the flimsiness of empty expectations. Nothing beats that nervous system reset anyway. I also really appreciate you purchasing 'The Opposite of an Exodus'!
And thank you so much, we really were made for the sun
Thank you for this you’ve left me with some reflections on what it would look like for me to leave my job💚
i love this. sending you love as you step fully into that 🤍🐚
This was such a beautiful read and exactly what I needed to read today. Thank you for sharing your art with us ❤️ "I celebrate the way I gently unknotted whatever sat stubbornly in my stomach, the guilt, the sense that writing was a side hustle rather than all I woke up and wanted to do." Hit so close to home 🫶🏾
Thanks so much for this comment! Appreciate you and glad that you align with this 🤍
mmmm yes this resonates💓
i feel so grateful to have come across this post and comments section today, amara. im currently on day two of calling in “sick”myself. im burnt out on the rat race, yearning so deeply for something different. your words bring me hope that something different is not just possible, but near🌀
Kenzi I'm so thankful for this comment. It is perfectly timed!!! And I am praying that you arrive at the place you're supposed to with ease. It is near!! What an affirmation, I appreciate this and you always.
💓💓💓
Self love and care is important.
deeply. I'm grateful to not deprioritise this in the life I live and imagine for myself.
I love this. Especially "my long love affair with having the sense and bravery". What taking a truly courageous leap can do for one's soul! Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much, I'm glad this resonated!
Loved every second of this
Aw I'm so glad you did!!
You're a more patient woman than me, i really would have cussed her tf out 😭
This is beautiful and inspiring, i love to witness black women win -- It's our time!
Literally on that journey now (minus being scolded)
Mmmmm, thank you so much for sharing this. It is absolutely our time (endlessly). I'm so composed (air sign) but fr I sometimes wonder how it would've gone if I wasn't a think first, act after person loool. Truthfully, I feel like I needed to leave that space to truly acknowledge my power, the way it exists always in me and my worthiness in general. It was, as you can tell, a toxic space in a very British way and so any form of acting out felt misplaced for me. But it could never run today, there is not a soul on Earth who can disrespect me in the name of power dynamics. With maturity and self-knowing, it's a blessing to know how to navigate and remove ourselves from that with urgency. I honestly lovee this topic, the turning point (and innate self-protection) for Black women is honestly my favourite thing to witness. So glad you're on your journey now
I am sending love as you find your footing through this!!
Such a beautiful read 🩷 Your decision is incredibly courageous. Wishing you the very best, and I'm excited to continue reading you. Such a delightful discovery!
I'm so grateful that you're here! Thank you so much and I am also wishing you the best ❤️
I'm coming to this piece way late, but just wanted to say: what a wonderful read. Having f*ck off money is one thing, but having the courage to actually f*ck off is another. Good for you for having the courage to bet on yourself! I was unemployed for about a year between 2021-2022 (though it was a lot less brave because it was not 100% my choice), and I miss having that time to myself to just write.
Wow I can imagine a whole year being so full and leaving enough space to write and lay around thinking and rest(!!!). I agree, the f*cking off part is fuelled by a type of courage I never needed to use before but I'm so glad for it. That period was a different kind of special. I really cherish what that time alone inspired in me. Thanks for reading!
Thank you so much for sharing this with me. It makes me want to treasure these moments, in between time, when I can write, even more. I remember being too tired to write in the morning (like I promised myself), or attack and edit in the evening (like I promised myself).
No more broken promises. ✨
Mmmm I know that feeling! I'm glad you're making space to enjoy and treasure that period and dedicate it to your writing. I really think it changed the game for me and I'm glad that it resonates with you and other writers. Thank you for reading and being here, Mika.
I just found this piece and it's stunning. It stirs up curiosity within myself and what I'm capable of. Thank you for sharing <33 I love hearing when people take a leap of faith for themselves.
thanks for sharing how this felt to you. I’m thankful it resonated 🌹
Wow, I loved this! It speaks to a season I’m traveling through currently and is very encouraging. I know I found this at just the right time
Thanks for this comment! So glad this was on time. I wish you love and boldness as you move through this and into your new chapter.
I’m sorry you were treated like that, but proud of you for taking a chance even with the unknowns. I recently was let go from my job, but I was unhappy anymore and was actually relieved when it happened. I woke up so much happier the next day knowing I could now work on myself and my future instead of dreading each day!